Ask the Sub: Can I be feminist and submissive?

Ask the Sub: Can I be feminist and submissive?

Hi Veronica, I'm feeling really conflicted lately. I feel like I have submissive tendencies, but at the same time, I'm a hardcore feminist. Is it possible to be both? How do I reconcile these feelings of ambivalence? Thanks, Frazzled Femininst This question hits home...

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How Disney Shaped My Kinkiness

How Disney Shaped My Kinkiness

A question I get asked quite a bit is, “How did you know you were kinky?” I actually love answering this question, because I find it to be the conversation that not only establishes trust between people (because let’s be real, most of these stories begin when you’re...

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Ask the Sub: Husband + Butt Plug = Gay?

Ask the Sub: Husband + Butt Plug = Gay?

“Hi Veronica, Thank you for having your Ask the Sub segment. I’ve been wanting to ask someone this question for a while now, but the thought of actually voicing it scares me. Here goes: I’ve been married to my husband for 9 years, and we’re very happy together. The...

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5 Signs You’re More Kinky (In Bed) Than You Think

5 Signs You’re More Kinky (In Bed) Than You Think

Here’s the thing, no matter how much you know a topic, or are immersed in it tits deep, you’re always learning a new thing or five about it everyday. Take me for instance — the most common thing I hear from people after they ask me about my kinkiness is: “I could...

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Blog Cherry Popped! (The First Post)

Blog Cherry Popped! (The First Post)

Passion. It’s a funny thing. All my life I’ve had my teachers, mentors, friends, and family tell me to find my passion and to follow it. And then, when push comes to shove, sometimes that passion is put on hold in favor of doing something that’s financially “smart”,...

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Hey, I’m Veronica!

I’m a kink + BDSM educator for curious beginners. On this blog, you’ll find resources, articles, and personal experiences to help you on your own kink journey.

Desires Laid Bare is here to help make kink + BDSM fun, easy, and accessible.