Setting a Scene for BDSM
Top 3 Things To Know About Kink
“Why Do I Like BDSM?”
What Happens at a Kink Conference
What Does it Mean to Be Kinky?
You would think that the question, “What does it mean to be kinky?” would be the most basic and easiest question to answer in the kink and BDSM world, but it isn’t. This question stumps both kink-curious and people who have been in the lifestyle alike. Chances are, if...
Adding Kink to My Morning Routine Increased My Creativity and Productivity
For years, I read that the most successful people — that I looked up to anyways — had morning routines. It’s no secret that a morning routine (whatever morning means to you), maximizes productivity, energy, and creativity. I was excited to create and execute my...
Yes, it’s possible to be a CEO, Feminist, and Submissive
CEO. Feminist. Submissive. Seems pretty contradictory, right? At first, that’s what I thought, too. Leave it to me to start Googlin’ and researching what it meant to be a submissive in the BDSM lifestyle while taking a Feminist Studies 101 class. I was raised to be a...
What it Really Means to Be Kinky
Whether you’re all for labels or against it as a form of identity alignment, labels exist — introvert, extrovert, binary, non-binary, Type A, Enneagram 3w2, Virgo, Slytherin, INTJ…you get the gist. Usually, the trend is that when you find a label that speaks to you,...
What Turns You On Doesn’t Define Who You Are
It sounds like something Captain Obvious would say, right? But in truth, it’s not that obvious…unless you’re attuned to it. Let me give you an example: Guilty pleasures. We all have them — those tv shows, movies, songs, and what-have-you that you love, but feel guilty...
Are You Ready for Kink/BDSM? 5 Signs You May Not Be
Let’s be real, kink and BDSM can get dangerous and abusive. Just look at Fifty Shades of Grey—it’s a domestic violence relationship masked as BDSM. If you didn’t know any better, you wouldn’t be able to tell. It can be subtle. There are countless stories out there...