5 Things I Learned Living The Kink Lifestyle

5 Things I Learned Living The Kink Lifestyle

I will be the first one to admit that much of my desires to explore kink and BDSM were tied to sex. My desires, fantasies, and wants were tied to having kinky sex, where I was dominated, bound, and my control taken away (consensually). After I had these...

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Living a Kink Lifestyle

Living a Kink Lifestyle

What does living a kink lifestyle mean? The difference between someone living a kink lifestyle versus another person who's not is not how much you engage in kinky activities in or out of the bedroom. It's more to do with how much you integrate the kink way of life...

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Kinky Things to Try

Kinky Things to Try

There's so much out there – it can be overwhelming Your desire to incorporate kink and BDSM into our sex lives doesn't have to come from being "exposed" to it, like through books, movies, T.V. shows, or word of mouth. Generally, there are two ways that can lead people...

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BDSM For Beginners

BDSM For Beginners

BDSM for beginners — the best place to start is at the beginningYou know, I want to first congratulate you. Yeah, you! Okay, hear me out before you go lifting an eyebrow (I actually can’t do that...but I imagine I can, like Dwyane ‘The Rock’ Johnson)....

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Hey, I’m Veronica!

I’m a kink + BDSM educator for curious beginners. On this blog, you’ll find resources, articles, and personal experiences to help you on your own kink journey.

Desires Laid Bare is here to help make kink + BDSM fun, easy, and accessible.