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Desires Laid Bare is your comprehensive “how to kink/BDSM” membership site! Safely explore with confidence and your Desires will be Laid Bare.

What would life look like if you had the confidence to do anything you desired?

 

Are you feeling dissatisfied in a relationship because can not get your partner to be in BDSM?

 

Do you long to be able to serve others while feeling valued and safe while you do so?

 

No matter where you are in the world of kink and BDSM, we are a community here to answer your questions, give you the support you need, and open your life to a whole new adventure where you are free to be just who you are.

Join us and explore your Desires Laid Bare!

What would you do if you felt unstoppable?

  • Ask for that raise you know you deserve?
  • Confidently increase your prices in your business?
  • Finally take a vacation for yourself without feeling guilty?
  • Leave your dead-end job in pursuit of your happiness?
  • Unapologetically live your life exactly how you want to despite what the naysayers believe?

 

Did you know? Exploring your kinky desires leads to unstoppable confidence in the bedroom, in your relationships, professional life, and more? Come again? (Gladly.)

 

When you stand in your power and say “Yes” to exploring your kinky fantasies—those ones…where you’re taken, shoved up against the wall while dirty words are whispered into your ear, and your hands helplessly pinned and immobilized before you get thrown onto the bed and ravished, all notions of right or wrong abandoned, just lost in your ecstasy.

Or, when you you realize that reading and watching Fifty Shades of Grey turns you on like no other, and gets you equally as curious to try and incorporate some of what you see from the books and movies into the bedroom and beyond with the toys—the implements, the dominance and submission, the pleasures of being bound and told what to do—you’re taking your life and happiness into your own hands.

 

You become…free.

Kink gave me the power to live my life.

Oh yeah, I’m Veronica, founder of Desires Laid Bare. Hello!

I wouldn’t have waited as long as I did to explore kink if I knew it would change my life completely for the better.

I had waited 5 long years to explore kink. When my then-girlfriend and I broke up, I knew if I didn’t take the leap, I would forever regret it. This was something I had wanted to try for so long. Since I was single, the only way I could explore was through the local kink community.

 

I was terrified. I didn’t know how or where to begin.

What if this wasn’t all it was hyped up to be? What if the people I met didn’t like me because my fantasies and curiosities were too weird? On top of that, being the introvert that I was and doing this by myself didn’t help my nerves any better.

 

I did it anyways; I made a promise to myself to not live with regrets.

Because I took a chance on following my desires, I experienced a re-birth, if you will. I made friends, real friends. I met my partner, the best partner and Dominant I could ask for. I experienced pleasure and satisfaction like no other. I got to experience everything I could have imagined and more.

What I saw in the movies or fantasized about in my mind was nothing compared to how it really felt. They don’t tell you about the goosebumps that run up and down your body as you’re blindfolded and anticipating what’s going to happen next. Or, they don’t adequately capture the feeling of being desired and lusted after as rope is tied around your body. Or, the sensation of feeling completely safe, loved, and at peace while your partner is deliberately teasing you and running their fingers up and down your legs during a dinner outing knowing full well you’re all hot and bothered. My mind, body, and soul sparked alive.

What I saw in the movies or fantasized about in my mind was nothing compared to how it really felt.

They don’t tell you about the goosebumps that run up and down your body as you’re blindfolded and anticipating what’s going to happen next.

You have the right to choose your own path.

Exploring my kinkiness showed me that I could not only trust myself, but also put myself and my happiness first.

I didn’t know that by exploring my kinkiness, I blossomed into this person who took bigger, braver, and more courageous chances all in the name of actually living and thriving in my life, not merely surviving. When the opportunity presented itself to move to a whole new state to pursue my entrepreneurship, I went for it. I didn’t make plans A to Z; I didn’t ask all my friends for their opinions and validations; I just went. I also had the courage to say goodbye to people that were toxic and to people whose outlook on life were opposite of mine. I deemed myself worthy of goodness and let go of things that sucked me down. I didn’t know that kinky satisfaction and fulfillment in the bedroom rippled into so many other areas of my life.

 

I stripped away the things, attitudes, people, and beliefs that I didn’t need. I laid myself bare.

Kink helped nudge me towards unapologetically being the person that I’ve always meant to be. This is why I’m here. This is what I’m meant to do, to empower women to unapologetically live their truths through safely exploring their kinky desires with confidence. And thus, Desires Laid Bare was born.

 

I learned that I had tremendous power even if I desired to be the submissive.

I deemed myself worthy of goodness and let go of things that sucked me down.

I didn’t know that kinky satisfaction and fulfillment in the bedroom rippled into so many other areas of my life.

No more Googling your days away and swimming in a sea of noise.

I wanted to explore kink and BDSM, but I had no flippin’ clue HOW or WHERE to start.

Trying to search the internet to get a semblance of understanding of how to begin exploring kink can be so daunting. There’s so much information from so many different points of view. Especially since I knew nothing other than what I saw in movies, I just desired a resource to guide me step-by-step as a beginner, so that I felt safe and confident exploring.

You’re also the type of person who needs to know everything about everything before you make a decision or decide to do something. It’s your way of feeling confident and safe…calculated actions, am I right? (Hello! Me too!) You also don’t have time to sift through an ocean of information. How do you know what’s trustworthy? You want the information straight up and succinct. You’ve got a life to live, asses to kick, and names to take.

Whether it’s learning how to:

  • Get tied to the bed and other bondage how to’s
  • Build your “HELL YES” and “HELL NO” list of boundaries
  • Tease, build anticipation, and play in public
  • Getting introduced to various forms of S&M
  • Play with food 101
  • Incorporate kink into your life even if you have children
  • Become aware of your carnal and primal energy and needs
  • Hone your inner Dominant for maximum confidence
  • …and MUCH more,

Desires Laid Bare will teach you everything you need to know, and support you every step of the way.

You desire information you can trust and act on right away. After all, you’re an action-taker.

 

You also don’t have time to sift through an ocean of information. How do you know what’s trustworthy?

You want the information straight up and succinct.

You’ve got a life to live, asses to kick, and names to take.

We’re in this together.

Welcome to Desires Laid Bare.

You have permission to let your kinky desires and curiosities roam free.

Desires Laid Bare was designed and created exactly with you in mind. I’ve taken everything I learned in my kink journey, and created a guided resource for you, so that you can safely explore youkinky desires and curiosities with confidence.

Everything is laid out for you in a logical manner, so you know exactly what is going on.

Desires Laid Bare allows you to experiment with kink and BDSM in a safe, empowering, tasteful, and fun way:

  • Easy to digest actionable videos that you can implement right away
  • Worksheets and resources for ultimate pleasure and safety
  • Guest contributors and experts to play with
  • Live interviews and training sessions
  • Live “Ask Me Anything” sessions with Veronica and guest experts
  • Group coaching calls
  • 1-on-1 coaching calls (where applicable)

 

Who this is for:

  • Action-takers who are ready to transform their lives
  • People who are curious about dipping their toes into kink and BDSM
  • Beginners who have tried kink, but would like a more guided journey filled with support
  • People who know that they have control over what happens in their lives

 

Who this is NOT for:

  • People who blame the world for their problems
  • Pessimists and cynics
  • People who embody a victim mentality
  • People who are content keeping their fantasies and curiosities in their heads

Membership

Paid Monthly
$29.99/month
  • Flexible month-to-month payments
  • Instant access to all classes
  • Instant access to all worksheets and resources
  • Invites to upcoming live trainings
  • Invites to upcoming Q&A calls
  • Cancel anytime
BECOME A MEMBER FOR $1

Trial period ($1) lasts 3 days.

Classes currently live in Desires Laid Bare

 

The unstoppable you is waiting to come out.

Let’s be real, 2017 is already here.

Don’t let another year go by where you constantly wonder if this type of satisfaction and pleasure is for you.

It’s okay to be nervous and scared shitless, because this is not something you know how to do…otherwise you wouldn’t be here. But, trust me, if kink is something you’ve been curious about, and you’re someone that takes action and gets shit done, you’re meant to be here.

What’s on the other side? Possibly the best sex you’ve ever had. The most transformative personal journey you’ve experienced. A tremendous upleveling in your relationship with your partner. Immense confidence in your career. And more.

Do it for you. Join the movement. Dare to Bare.