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“Hi Veronica,

Thank you for having your Ask the Sub segment. I’ve been wanting to ask someone this question for a while now, but the thought of actually voicing it scares me. Here goes: I’ve been married to my husband for 9 years, and we’re very happy together. The sex has actually been getting better and better as time goes on. A few months ago, he brought up so nonchalantly that he was interested in wearing a butt plug while we have sex one of these days. I was so caught off guard that I didn’t really respond, and we haven’t brought it up since. If he’s interested in wearing a butt plug, does that mean he might be…gay? What would cause him to bring this up otherwise? —Problematically Plugged.”